It’s almost time for UpTheBrum 4!
After a gloriously fun time in May, when the weather really helped make the evening one to remember, our big summer party is coming on August 13th!
First up we’ll be back with speed dating. This is a great way to get to know people in person and hit the ground running. If you’re feeling nervous about the idea don’t be! Everyone wants to have fun conversations, it’s a great ice breaker, so definitely consider giving it a go. If you haven’t already… ESPECIALLY if you haven’t already!
If you speed date or not, we’ll be kicking off at 6pm and going on until late, giving you plenty of time to work the room, press the flesh and make a load of sexy new connections.
As with our previous events this is a purely social event. Make your plans here, but carry them out in your own time, away from our prying us. Unless you make plans with us. Then… Well… You know.
There will also be a dead classy light buffet and some form of entertainment that should be fun without outstaying its welcome.
That’s the night itself but we’ll also have a fun, chatty Telegram room a few weeks beforehand too, another great way to get an idea of who you’ll be meeting, and how much fun it’ll be on the night.
Obligatory note to single guys. We keep the numbers fair an balanced but we get a LOT more guys wanting to come. If you want to make the guest list make sure your profile shows you’d be a good addition as you absolutely WILL be judged on it. Also note that guys who have come before may need to make way for new guys to have their turn. Sorry, but these are the breaks.
And I still haven’t learned to stop using so many exclamation marks!
J&Cx
upthebrum@swingsocial.org
Hey… You still there? Are you thinking about coming but feel nervous? Lots of people talk about feeling nervous in our chat room beforehand. If you want to come but are not sure you’ll fit in or feel comfortable then know you are NOT alone. We’ve had so many anxious first timers turn into repeat offenders, and you probably will too!
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Hello [name] You're coming to UpTheBrum Phwo4r! It's getting close, and speed dating is open for registration. 'Speed dating' might be a slightly misleading title as it is just for fun and a super speedy way to get people introduced! Remember this kicks off the social promptly at 6pm, if you cannot get to the venue in time then please do not sign up. We spend a long time making the best matches and although we pull our hair out at late arrivals and no shows, it's also the list of people you are meeting that get let down. Please don't be one of those people and let us know if you are signed up, but cannot make it! You sign up separately for speed dating on the swingsocial.org site and if you add in comments who you would like to meet we will do our best to match you up with some good candidates. We have opened our dedicated chat group so you can start chatting to all the other sexy guests on the list. Please do take a minute to read our pinned rules as breaking those will earn you a red card and we don't want that! Here is the link you need to join the Telegram group, we have a separate 'intros' room where you can post pictures/videos (faces and clothed bodies only please) and a brief bit about yourselves. If you include your Fab profile name it will make you easier to find for all your new admirers. Chat room - https://t.me/+QlwKr28XG6Y4MmY8 Intros room - https://t.me/+f3IyKRtjMnY2NWNk If you're new to Telegram as an app, you may want to remember that by default it will look up contacts in your address book and tell them you joined. And they will call you by the handle you choose. So you probably want to stick to your actual first name unless your kids teacher suddenly gets told that BigBoyDonkeyShagger321 has just joined Telegram! Finally, the venue is on the edge of the Jewellery quarter (closest station is Snow Hill) if you would like to book accommodation. It is always worth remembering that there is often an 'after party' so accommodation near the venue is not always the most useful! Right, you will hear from us again, but meanwhile we will see you in the chat! UpTheBrum
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Thank you for coming to UpTheBrum 4: Phwo4r!! We hope you had a great time. If you would like to provide any feedback, please reply to this email. Also now you are listed as having actually attended, you can try our new matchmaking feature! Go view the guest list again and you can star other guests. If you both think each other are stars, you'll get an email to let you know! What could go wrong? Thanks UpTheBrum
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